Aftermath of Feb 14th and my Birthday


I spent my birthday/valentine day alone and it was nothing new. It has always been like that. Even when I had a boyfriend, My ex has never been there. They are always busy on Valentine's day...But thats life for you. I had thought this year will be different. But is the same Old story. But I cant help asking why loneliness knows me by name.

Hitherto, I had planned to go to the beach with few friends. But not so many people turn out, the ones dat promised to come sef na under likely..I will call you. So I fashy it and I decide to just stay home,cook and go to the mall in preparation for Sunday.

I really wish I could spend the day with someone I really love,who care about me pieces. Alas men proposes and God disposes. Nevertheless I enjoyed my day with adorations from friends and well wishers and on facebook, I had over 400 birthday messages which I took turns in replying everybody individually..Its was a terrific job..But since I'm stucked at home.It really helps soothing my loneliness.

In the night. I slept of like a baby and I dreamt of him,(I'm going to save u lots of details) And in that dream. I found me in his hand. He was totally out of this world and he treated me to special delight and he had me where I want to be.Makes me giggles,happy and fulfilled as I desired.

The fun proper started on the second day, I had few friends in my house,where we just jolly jolly with my mum's special beans for the twins.

I didnt receive so many gift..But I got me a cake,a perfume, a dress and a champagne. At least I've got to make me really happy now.. My friend gave some Mary Kay's beauty gift set and a cute lil teddy bear, can u believe thats the first time in my late twenties someone will be giving me a teddy..Anyway its awesome, I love it. I also received more perfume and deodorant from one of my beautiful friend, a shoe from my old school buddy and I received few cards and one from an admirer. He scribed a short note. Have been dying to talk to you. I really want to make you mine forever, if you will let me.Hmmmmm.Sound nice..And he promise to show his face soon(He should make sense ooo).LOL

Anyway yours truly have a new birthday resolution, the first 5 prioriy are..MARRIAGE & MAKE BABIES...SELF EMPLOYED...CAR...BABIES...AND FINISH ONE OF MY BOOKS. May Almighty GOD help me.

Thank you guys for been there for me. I really appreciate. Love you all loads.

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wordmerchant said...

aww sweerie...don't worry, the babies, husband and true love will find you...keep your heart and mind open and they will arrive

you sound very down to earth..nice quality to have

Have a fab week xxx

Afrobabe said...

It will be different next year love...be positive minded...

Happy belated birthday

Temite said...

hehehehe. Is that why you have been stalking my husband?
Anyways sweetie, it is well. You will find love. pele. happy belated birthday dear. xoxo

MilesPerHour said...

Hmmm, I wonder if God has a plan here. You know he does, be still.

Danny Bagucci said...

LOL.. Good to know you had a geat birthday anyways......Time typically resolves a lot of those priorities...

Spicytee said...

@ wordmerchant..thx for the sweet words..Have a great week too.

@ Afrobabe.. I'm very positive it will be diff..Cos I'm gonna get it by the grace of GOD.

@Temite..Ooo serious..FBA na our guy oh...You know there is love in sharing,we must share,Ok borrow me for now plzzzzzzz.LOL

@Miles..God definately looking and working out the best for me..Thx bro.

@Danny..time will surely set the prioties right.Thx

Vera Ezimora said...

Happy belated birthday, love. Dis your belt sha. I like am ooo

Dabizniz said...

Amen

Naija Sapphire said...

Happy Belated Birthday. I know you will have a better birthday next year. These conditions never last for long. And for your sake I hope that the admirer is as fine and charming as he sounds.

Spicytee said...

@ Vera thanks or make I send it to that your P.O box?
@ Dabizniz..Thx..How re u holding up?
@Naija Sapphire..Ihope so too.. but the guy should show his face asap. Cos me I'm tired of day dreaming oh.. Thx 4 d prayers

miz-cynic said...

i like this post...if u dont mind my asking , how old are u........ur frinds will always be thr jare even if bobos desert u....glad ugot tht surprise ...i hope he turns out to be a nice guy and u 2 live happily ever after.

Spicytee said...

Hahaha @ Miz-Cynic..
Kai..am just in my late twenties oh..Thx 4 ur kind words.

LG said...

wey my cakeS??????????????/ :)
Amen to ur prayers dear
it is well'



(hope FBA no show 4 ur parry :)

AlooFar said...

hello b'day mate. good to know you had fun.

Funms-the rebirth said...

Happy belated birthday....... dont worry, this lonely feeling will soon pass and u'd meet someone who cares about u in the way u deserve

Sweetest Edo Sista said...

Funny that we've got the same same! resolutions....Happy Belated Birthday...hoping seriously dat my birthday(15th April) has spice..lol
P.S: nice blog!

doug said...

As wordmerchant said, true love and companionship will find you. Just keep looking out for it, and resist the urge to become a cynic. I was alone on valentine too....and it has always been so...though I'm a guy...

Thanks for stopping by my blog!

StandTall-The Activist said...

I have a friend that is Feb 14th too. Glad you enjoyed your own company. Happy belated b'day

Spicytee said...

Awwww...Thank u guys 4 d wwarm wishes..Love u all.
@ LG..where shud I send ur cake to? Send me d address or na virtual cake u want ni?
@Aloofar...so u re my bday mate..Dont worry u will be my val next year..Hope u had fun too? Thx.. May all ur dreams come true.
@Funmi..Thx sis..This one too hsall pass..LOL. How u doin?
@MySwetEdoSis..Dont worry it will be spicy as you've never imagine..I'm keeping a tab on ur bday..Invite me to come chop rice oh.
@Doug..aww.. we could have been together now.. I for borrow u for that day alone sef... Anyway thx 4 d prayers buddy.
@StandTall... Thx sis..Abi they said loving come from oneself..And I'm glad I made myself happy jare..Anyway see u on ur blog soon? How re ur cats..LOL..Cheers

Afronuts said...

Wow...I gotta say, you are one awesome lady. From the look of things you seem to be focused and steady with ur head on ur shoulders despite still being alone. I really admire that and I know your nature is bound to catch the interest of some budding suitors soon.

Just hang in there hon...its a matter of time.

And A HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!

exschoolnerd said...

nice to know u had a fab day dear..u deserve it...

Spicytee said...

@ Afronut..Hmmm..thx for the kind words.
@ Exschoolnerd..Thx dearie..how are u doing?

AlooFar said...

your Val? oh, that's so cool. Can't wait for next year!

SECRET DIARY said...

Omo Oba, ki lo de? Na waaaaa ohhh.

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Arewa said...

happy belated birthday!

some things in life u can't time, like marriage and kids, u can only pray and wait. I'm sure you will find it at the appointed time...

as for the others, your book and car and self employment... stay focused and work hard and i'm sure u will get what u want.

x

bumight said...

omigosh, im sorry im late:

happy birthday in arrears. im glad u had fun (even though u're trying to steal my ex-husband)

this secret admirer....might be the answer to my prayers!

brownlie said...

Belated birthday greetings from Scotland!! I've just read your charming blog and hope you find what you're looking for. He's out there somewhere - wishing he could find you!

Spicytee said...

@ Allofar.. Ole... see ur mouth..LOL

@ Secret Diary..why saving ur comment and who is approving what? Na u sabi oooo

@ Arewa...You've gota very good point.. And I'm not timing them per say but is good to work and plan against it. Who knows... the yoruba adage says..( A pe mo ra ni an pe temidire) We should always dream for what we desire.Thx all d same...

@ Bumight... wetin now sister... u sha wan make I no say FBA be ur vomit abi? No worry I will manage am like that...LOL Anyway thx 4 d msg sister.. We re still in Feb ..so is never late.

@Brownlie...Thx alot.. I really appreciate...But Pray that he show face immediately sista is pretty lonely oh.Laughs

Geebee said...

My heart goes out to you, sis. Sometimes, even in our loneliness, we have solace in the fact that there are still some people out there who truly care about us. Now, look who’s talking of being lonely. 400 text messages for a birthday! That should destroy every feeling of loneliness. Your resolutions sound great. I wish you all the best even as you work on them.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Here i was wondering how much fun you had on your bday only to read that you were alone. Sorry oh SpicyT. Why don't you reschedule a blog bday, so we can all come by and party right here at your blog?

It would be fun, what with virtual fanta, jollof rice and cake. =)

Spicytee said...

Geebee.. I meant FB wall post... But that doesnt say one shouldn't be lonely still pghysically now..LOL..Thx bro.

@SSD.. Ok no wahala.. I'm appointing you as the chief host of the day...So goahead invite all d bloggers..
But Next year, by the grace of GOD.. I will spend my bday getting some TLC, Kissmaquine and lovemakingmatycine from a wonderful man...

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Naughty Eyes said...

Hi! Dedicated a post to you and AlooFar on you birthday. Check medianemesis.blogspot.com on that date for it. Also sent you FB messages and mail to your Gmail.
For what it's worth, Happy belated Birthday...

Dabizniz said...

No post on your blog since...Abi dem put Otapiapia for your cake?

Geebee said...

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Oyin said...

First time here....happy bday...

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