Sex and Love making ...

Gone are those days when everyone's notion about sex was is for reproduction.Now people enjoy sex for various reasons.Though relationship is not based on sex but its proved that 70% of the stimulus in a good relationship depend on eroticism. Sex is the pivot on which a relationship rotates.But should not be the basic.

Love making ought to be like food. Not something anyone rush into. Just like you take every minute detail in preparing your delicacy so also should sex. I mean love making because sex and love making quite differs.

Most men mistake having sex with making love. While having sex is the act of sharing pleasure with your partner,making love is the emotional act of loving and adoring your partner,women appreciate lots of kissing,cuddling,romancing,foreplay than just climbing,pour and roll off.

Which is very bad. A good guy that knows his onions should always ensure that his partner also get there if not reach orgasm. But most of the time we are all guilt of this offense. Most especially guys. The babe might still be patient enough for the guy to cum no matter how long it takes him to reach there.

Most women, do not even get to cum, they just pretend,some even go as far as faking orgasm just to make make their guy happy and boost his ego. But it really be shouldn't about that. Not every woman can achieve orgasm,we shouldn't pretend rather we should crave it and work towards having one. Though sexual satisfaction can happen with or without it. Also men should learn how to make their woman satisfy and should resist tiredness,weakness and sleep.. Sex ought not to be a one-sided thing.

Also women should tell their man what they really want or not. There is nothing wrong in showing him where you love to be touch. You could try non-verbal clues can also help him to know what you want. Such as gently pushing his hand,mouth or what have you to the spot you'd love to feel him. But truly most women rather shy on bed, especially Nigerian women,they are always afraid of what the men will think of them if they offer too much but I bet you, guys don't really enjoy a woman who just sleep like a log of wood. They want to see some sensuality oozing out of their woman. They'd want to know what you feel with the way you move,groan and moan or even scream.

Sexual intercourse is a serious business meant for adult and married couples..So you both should work at what make you feel comfortable and happy. But be careful and be protected always.

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Dabizniz said...

Thanks for the Beducation

Spicytee said...

Beduction indeed..
You're not serious...
Hope learn something se?

Steven Chinonso said...

hhhhmmmmmmmm

Temitope Amodu said...

Taiwo... you've gone crazyyy with this one....

Even men are shy about this topic..

You've got some wits , that much i can tell you.

About the topic, maybe back in the day, Men regard regard the sexually active and adventurous women as slots and spoilt; but today most men would rather want a woman that knows the proverbial "wussup" in the sheets.

As the saying goes, "a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed" is usually taken very seriously by men.

Oyindamola Alonge said...

AHHHH where are the comments now? Let's talk about sex people!

Oby Dike said...

Iyen Lama ri e si Oyinda....... how u dey? Long time....

Olalekan Teibo said...

@ tope, you're right a guy wants a lady on the streets and a tigress in bed, no more lying just there we want someone that isn't scared or ashamed to tell us if we are hitting the spot just the way its meant o be hit.the ladies are tired of the wham,bang,thanks kind of guy, what is the essence of a guy tht can't take you to eldorado and back,lots of foreplay, kissing and sweet words to a lady does wonder and if you know her G spot pay attention to it,to those that can a little secret sucking a lady's clit is enough to make her come
Guys let's hear more commenbts

Steven Chinonso said...

more hhmmmmm. Make i get my glasses

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

AH....
this is a mistake....Oh my God
I'm writing this for my byline...

Yets Lade Olayinka Adenubby said...

Taiwo otun ti de

Jame Hanz said...

yaa right

Balogun Kafayat said...

This is becoming intresting............abi

Nosa Cyril Onaghise said...

REAL TALK I LIKE IT

LahLah Omolewa Sadiya B said...

Wow.....Interesting like whoaaaa!

Yets Lade Olayinka Adenubby said...

Taiwo all i kno is i love...... love even b4 reading ok lemme proceed den will be bck.
i love u gurlfriend ur notes dis days are juicy juicy LMAO
send ur number again jo...my inbox

Olawale Bruce Atoyebi said...

SEXUAL CONTACT IS 1 OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE STIMULI 2 RECAHRGE A MIND PROVIDING THE CONTACT IS INTELLIGENTLY MADE,BETWEEN A MAN ND WOMAN WHO AV GENUINE AFFECTION 4 EACH OTHER.
SEX MOST BE PRATICE LIKE SPORT EVERYDAY OF LIFE

David Adeyemi said...

LOL

Jaguda said...

yes maaaaaaaaaaaaaam

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