Have You Ever Been In Love With Two People At The Same Time?

Have You Ever Been In Love With Two People At The Same Time?
And how did you manage it?

30 Browser(s):

StandTall-The Activist said...

I wont know if this is love or infatuation on my part but yes I have. Cant remember how I handled or if I handled it...

Afrobabe said...

yes...you cant manage it...you will always want to be with one person more than the other....dump the other..

Anonymous said...

its definately not possible. true love dosnt cheat, is not selfish & gives all.

Sammy Degbetuwa said...

Hi i came across this on a friends page hope u dont mind my response. I have actually been in such position and what i think one can do is in as much as u love both folks, stick to the one that really work ur nerves in a good or bad way. reasons been because u have figured out the other one well and this second one still has things u dont know. it actually works well. Well so i think

Ayaba Phathyma Sowemimo said...

yea,i have been in luv with 2 guys @ d same tyme,but trust me its crazy.its crazy in d fact dat u never wanna let either go but u have 2 choose one.

Ade Ajibade said...

Hmm have u ever been in love with more than 2 people at a time.....that's what I like to know........LOL

BTW I love everyone, fancies some but ALWAYS with one person at a time, if my "ex" decided to get back on board, I will give it a serious thought but at d end of d day, it's one at a time unless I'm in transition, once a choice is made....I have to stick to it........Now we talking.......LOL

Buhle Mncube said...

is it possible to be in love with two people at the same? My understanding of 'being in love' and just loving is different. If you are in love, you shut everybody off, your mind, body and soul is directed to that particular person and you can't love anybody else, but yes I have LIKED two beings at one go (long time ago)...hahaha. is that a sin?? LOL I hope he's not reading this...my oh my, i will have cold turkey!

Bashorun Thorpeh said...

Hmmmmm...... What a question Taiwo, u know now, it has happened to me oh, and why cos the first guy wont come out straight with what he's got to offer, but when the second guy came with a reasonable reason why i have to go with him, then , but you know what i got's choose amongst them, but one will definitely be the best....... let me stop here, hope have not said smthng too.......

Ade Ajibade said...

Thorpeh a.k.a Tope...U are speaking in tongues, u have not said anything, pls come back and articulate your point...Omo sexy stop teasing....LOL

Bashorun Thorpeh said...

@Ade i have spoken, all u need is to read again and digest.....lol

Bashari Shehu Bakari said...
This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.
Lepacious Bose said...

really it is possible, it has happened to me but i do realize that the real truth is you are only being sentimental with one of the guys,maybe you like some things he does and you feel that you owe him love for being so good or nice, or maybe the sex is HOT. love is an eruption of your mind and total being,you carry the person in your heart ... Read Moreandthought 24/7, if he feels the same way you feel like you are going crazy with your feelings. if not you still feel you are loosing your mind and your heart is in such deep pain no pain reliever can cure. NO! YOU CAN'T LOVE TO MEN AT THE SAME TIME. you can love one and feel attracted, infatuated or even lust after another but its not love.love is too mind blowing for that. oh! did i say all that? ye mogbe Spiccccccccccy.

Steven Chinonso said...

Its very possible. I no fit explain sha but i v falling in Love with 5 at same time call it playing but i loved them all for diff reasons.

Harrison Akas said...

Luv!hmmm...my dear dats a big one o.d fact is dat it's nt possible cs dez always goin 2b sm level of preferences givin 2 one dan d oda.certainly both cnt b regarded as bein in luv,either of dem myt b based on infatuation,crave 4 d flesh or resources,fame or wateva,while d oda is based on genuine feelins,affectn n intention,n dats wat i regard as luv.wel as 4 me,in tym past,v had quite alot buh i luvd jst one cs dats wat my heart cld carry.lol..infact it ought 2 b dat way.

Harrison Akas said...

Dez a huge difference btw luv,like n lust.so b careful wit/in ur interpretation.

Joy Inegbenebor said...

Its not possible to love 2 persons at d same time....u must prefer 1 to d other. if u r truly deeply in love u cant even stand d thought of being with some1 else.....love doesn't cheat & true love gives all.

Funmilayo Adaja said...

I don't think its possible there must be one that you love more and you can even send the other person to hell to please that one your heart digs more.

Shomade Olumide said...

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm it is easier said than done. can someone defined the word L O V E?

Iyoha Matthew said...

Y nt if nt. Luv is 100%. Dats y its 50: 50 luv. I tk 50: she tks 50---> n d remain 50: i gv it to some other girl. If she pls let her do same. All dis is done in oda nt 2 fall a victim of hrtbrk.

Funke Kinda said...

it's not possible to love two people equally at the same time.you must definitely love one more than the other.

Akinrolabu Akinmade Abayomi said...

You can love two people deeply for different reasons. It's a possibility. Speaking of which... you sef answer your own question. I'm curious to see what you'd write.

Ms. SpicyTee said...

Very well said my peeps..I I've never been in love with pple at d same time, I don't even know how to do that, thats why I post the question here.. Seriously I don't even know how to date two pple together. Not to talk of being in luv with two. Yeah their are time I have lust over another but I didnt push it further than that. But to me is not possible,genuine love can only be share with just one person. Unless you don't really know what you want or what exactly you are feeling.

Funke Kinda said...

well said babes...well said

Iyoha Matthew said...

Hmmmm! Dats nix! Which i were a gurl

Marcus Aderemi Owolabi Mustapha said...

its not possible to love 2 people at a time trust me its just a fantasy

Modupe Sanda said...

E wan' possible die?
I know it's hard enough loving one person, not to talk of two. However, it happens...occasionally.

Tony Francis said...

one can serve as main server while the 2nd one be backup. In case if the main server crash, the fellow will not have any option dan to use d backup.

Eugenia Agidee said...

Dat's not realistic!

Shittu Aramiwale said...

i have been in love with 2 ppl at the same time( Ayaba Phathyma Sowemimo and Ayaba Ibironke Sowemimo).......lol

Ben Ajibade said...

"its not possible to really love 2 people at the same time. we just pretend to do, but you can only love one person at a time or love one more dan the other.
Yes sometimes its possible when you are a cheat!!!!!!!!

Post a Comment

Your Thoughts?