How To Attract The Right Woman!!

You can make a guy like a babe but you cant make a babe like a guy. No matter how the guy tries to win her love if she doesn't like him,then it wont work out.

But never make a mistake of thinking showering a lady gift will make her succumb to you,you will be far,far wrong.

Though gifts do helps in cementing relationship but will never assist you to win a girl's genuine love and affection.
And most guys have this habit of coercing ladies to get into relationship with them,you might be lucky to get her at the long run but my advice is don't force it as a woman knows if she really want a guy the moment she sees him.

Most women plays by their own rule-Their ideal man or their wanted quality. Though you might also be lucky to get them change this but believe me it has to worth their while forget about money in this context.

Money can never be prerequisite to love. Most time love is what all there is to it.
Though there is nothing wrong when a girl wants little money. But as long as she doesn't get comfortable with the habit.

Here are few point to note:
*Women want a man who knows what he want.
*Women need a man who have self confidence, a man who is more comfortable with himself..
*Women want a trustworthy man,honesty is the key.

*Women want a romantic guy who excite and intrigue them all the time.

*Women want a good looking,neat and attractive guy,he doesn't necessarily have to be handsome.
*Women want a hardworking guy.

*Women love an intelligent guy.

*Women appreciate a man who listen and communicate with them even if it is sweet nonsense they have to say.

*Women want commitment and attention,a man who attend to their emotion and sexual need.

*Women admire a man who respect and value them.

*Women love a man who doesn't take her for granted when flirting with other babes.This something men can't do without but if you do such don't ever let her get wind of it.

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Bibi said...

women admire a man who respect and value them- true word. true word. true word. nice one

Bibi said...

did i scream first?

Dabizniz said...

*Women want a man who knows what he want.

Most men know what they want but would likely not say but instead say what he thinks the woman wants him to say

*Women need a man who have self confidence, a man who is more comfortable with himself..

Most men won’t be comfortable as they are always compared to the one that got away or an ex
*Women want a trustworthy man,honesty is the key.

Don’t trust anyone as far as you can throw him. Put trust in God

*Women want a romantic guy who excite and intrigue them all the time.

Romance is good but better when it’s two-way

*Women want a good looking,neat and attractive guy,he doesn't necessarily have to be handsome.

Handsome = attractive classic case of one man’s meat
*Women want a hardworking guy.
True...but not the one who is at "business meetings" all day, all week, all month, all year. Some hardwork..

*Women love an intelligent guy.
No Einstein but able to hold down a conversation

*Women appreciate a man who listen and communicate with them even if it is sweet nonsense they have to say.

An all ears man...who doesn’t yell out solutions all the time

*Women want commitment and attention,a man who attend to their emotion and sexual need.

A softee come Dauda the sexy guy ..joke

*Women admire a man who respect and value them.

If a man loves a woman deeply it translates to respect. A woman should respect a man as respect translates to love for a man. I don’t think a man should respect a woman in the sense we have come to understand

*Women love a man who doesn't take her for granted when flirting with other babes.This something men can't do without but if you do such don't ever let her get wind of it.

I don’t agree. Flirting is either in or out regardless of if she is present or not. I say no flirting

jhazmyn said...

@ Dabizniz...been there done that huh? 'nyways...i think i agree wit u on

Most men know what they want but would likely not say but instead say what he thinks the woman wants him to say

Romance is good but better when it’s two-way

Women want a hardworking guy.
True...but not the one who is at "business meetings" all day, all week, all month, all year. Some hardwork..

Women love an intelligent guy.
No Einstein but able to hold down a conversation

Women appreciate a man who listen and communicate with them even if it is sweet nonsense they have to say.
An all ears man...who doesn’t yell out solutions all the time

If a man loves a woman deeply it translates to respect. A woman should respect a man as respect translates to love for a man.

Flirting is either in or out regardless of if she is present or not. I say no flirting...


Nice one Tee

StandTall-The Activist said...

Gifts can be both ways, money given can be both ways as well just a digression cuz you already spelt out everything in logical manner.

@ Dabizniz: Me think respect should mean respect for both parties and love should me love. It's just that people have misplaced the meaning and all. You wont want to treat a man or a woman you respect and like anyhow and you will of course .

Ms. SpicyTee is this an outcome of your research on what women want when it comes to a relationship? Good job and sound points

SECRET DIARY said...

I am sick of hearing what women want. How about what I want :) ... Anyway, if u r posting a blog this week, be careful cos cos the internet will be down. The Internet Reboot - SitePoint announces that there will be an Internet reboot this week at 11:59UTC. As they put it, “People forget that the Internet has been running continuously since the 1970s. This reboot will provide greater stability for years to come. We’re also hoping it will result in fewer viagra and scam messages.”

RocNaija said...

Women play by their own rules up to a certain extent..
Rules are meant to be bent.. and broken..
That's why loads of people end up 'settling'...

Buttercup said...

the whole thing is relative, really..there's no set rule for all women..

some of what u said does apply to most women tho..

Dabizniz said...

@StandTall Interesting thought, but it is so so relative as to how we interpret respect and love. They go hand in hand but are distinct feeling men and women translate to love. There is no way a woman would feel loved and not respected if the man surely does love her. Same way a woman selflessly respecting and giving total submission translates to love for a man. The hard part is that none of these come easy and we always expect to get before we give

FineBoy Agbero said...

well said, but women are as unpredictable as the weather. What works for one woman may not work for d other. Key is to do what is right...

Jaguda said...

gbam !

L-VII said...

Lemme add my own... play it cool guys, (i don't like an over eager guy)

be authentic(no fake flowers, no fake accents, no fake jewellery)

Do not EVER talk up your game, women like to be surprised. Be cool and go with the flow.

(I love a man that can speak broken English but this is not a must)

These are just some little tips. If I were I a guy, I go dey get babe any how....lol.

african weight loss diva said...

Yeah girl, your posts are really really real! lol. All the guys here should read and practice oh. not just read

wordsmith said...

wait you can make a guy like a girl? biko kwanu how? o ma wa important ooo

Afrobabe said...

The gift might make her sleep with you though and thats all you really wanted in the first place right guys?

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

Omo the guys need to be here, you really got the picture of what we girls feel. Cool blog

Vera Ezimora said...

My darling, are you still mad @ me? LOL. You know I love you oh!!!

MilesPerHour said...

Very good points. I will disagree that men must flirt. I knew my GF for years and hardly noticed her since I was already committed to another. I mind my own business. After that relationship ended it much to our surprise that once we got to know each other, GF and I dated and fell for each other. Now she is my business and I have no other.

Ms. SpicyTee said...

@Bibi..Respect and value goes along way.Women need lots of that just like we give to the men.And yes, you screamed first..LOL
@Dabizniz..Yes,men are always like that, and you'd say whatever you think will make us fall so gullible to you guys(Abi no be wetin we wan hear be dat)Trust still go along way in cementing relationship though everything depend on God truly. And ofcourse romance is a two way street.LOL@ur business meeting..no women need a workaholic,he should be able to spend time. In short I appreciate all the point you pointed out..LOL
@ Jhazmyn..Dabizniz dey represent oh...Thanks for stoping by.
@The Activist..No, I just wrote this from another angle,just baring
@SecretDairy..What do you want? I wont post until next week then LOL..Cos I'd want them to reboot so it can bring about fewer viagra and scam msgs too for ya..Are u cool wt dat?
@Roc..very well opined, we need to compromise a lil ust as we mus set our boundaries too.
@Buttercup..Yeah there no set rules. Though everyone choose whatever path that work for them and stick with it.
@Dabizniz.. It doesnt really come easy. But always forget that,one only reap what one sow. If you don't open your heart to give,you will never receive.
@FBA..LOL..weather indeed. Different women,different stroke init?... Doin what is right is the best policy in this case truly.
@Jaguda..You too gbooosah
@L-VII..Thanks for the addiction..LOL @ fake flower,accents etc.. You can use the tips otherway round too now,so u can lots of husband u know? LOL
@AWLD..thanks ma'am..Help me tell them oh.
@Wordsmith...yes,guys can always see any babe and flow with her(Most guys are not necessarily choosy). But women are. And you can never force a man on her unless she digs him too.
@Afro..Laughing...the gift might enticed her and at the long run, the guy get wat he want too..abi shebi na give and take.
@TGWTRH.. Guy may read this but it may still not change their notion about what we feel...Is ur hair really red?..Thanks for stopping by..
@Vera... Hmmm, wait(I'm thinking) Ok, I don forgive you but... Tell u later. I dey come ur blog.
@Miles..If all men could be like you jo.. The world will be a berra place men..

Adeyinka Vincent Olanrewaju said...

wat can i say..... hmmmmmmmm i fink u r right in this aspect

Chibuzo Nwaeze said...

Women want everything... Let them try asking a guy out. We never know what to expect... Thanks for the tips anyway.

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Ms. SpicyTee said...

@Chibuzo.. Dont u men want everything as well? And do you think women cant ask men out? Then can my dear,but the problem is you men take them for granted afterall with your notion that she'd came after you.
@Abimbola, o ju loro wa.. Put ur comment here,lets pple learn from it.

L-VII said...

Women don't want every thing, lemme kuku talk for myself, I do not want everything, just a man that understands respect, can challenge me, likes jazz, appreciates his culture and mine. I am easy to please like that (please believe this at your own peril, lol)

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

@ Chibuzo; There are many women who have no problem asking a guy out. Are you sure it wouldn't bother you? I have met too many guys that claim they want a woman that goes for hers and then it makes them uncomfortable. I am just asking, sha.

Spicytee...nice tips.

Parakeet said...

Guys must love you for wot you do. I dont think u shud be helping them out o with such a wonderful post. Let them sweat just like we do.

Well done and keep up the good work.

mypenmypaper said...

@Spicy,
nice one, thanks for the post. I do not think there could be a general 'what do women want'...conclusion. Its when you hear people tell their stories that one could pick and choose, here and there. There are women that could put a man in a position where he doesnt know what she exactly wants. I call these kind 'random extremes'. He would have tried every trick in the book, but nah, they are just !!!

Nice one, tho, keep it up.

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