True Love!!!

Is there really true love?..Maybe yes, perhaps not! Behold

If you are wealthy and there I come, saying am truly in luv with you, may be am truly in luv with your fat wallets

If you are dashing, handsome and I say am truly in luv with you, perhaps I'm truly charmed with ur charming look.

If you are a genius and I say am truly in luv with you, I might just as well mean that am truly in luv with your ingenuity.

If you are young, ambitious, well focused and purposeful and I say am truly in luv with you, maybe am in luv with your fame."

Is there really an unconditional love? Maybe yes, perhaps not...
But what is really true love???

Let me share my thoughts on what is true love with you:.

True love is about trust, honesty and a willingness to work out problem. Every relationship have their low points but if each partner is strongly committed and trusting enough. These love will flourish. It has been wisely said that true love begins when being in love fades.

True love is all those small tiny things that makes you do together that makes love worth sharing..

True love is giving, caring,sharing and understanding each other's point of view while compromising to reach an agreement if one must.

True love is taking your partner as he/she is and not expecting the one you love to be perfect.

True love self-sacrificing and ever willing to forgive each other other and other again no matter what.

True love is powerful, passionate, love is when you would give your life for this person.

True love means that you would be there to wipe away tears when there sad, Laugh and cry with them,basically be there when in need.

True love is not just about emotions.

True love is giving, caring and a choice. Cos it is a choice to commit to someone, to stand by the person, protect the person and fight for the person.

Above all,True love is powerful, Love is passionate. Love is when you would give your life for this person.

Most importantly true love can occur at any stage. YOU are the only person who knows if your love is true, whether or not the object of your love agrees, because love is not measured by reciprocity. It is measure by loving your spouse, be affectionate anywhere even in public, treat them with respect and honor,protect him or her and finally, never run away from love. You'll probably be hurt, but keep trying until your find your own true love.The bottom line is that we all need to love and be loved in return.

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RocNaija said...

I guess you believe in 'True love' up until 'love' fails you...

Then you're a bit more circumspect..

Not takin anything away from your post though..
Nice one!

L-VII said...

Hmmn, I know zilch about love but it's nice to read someone else thoughts on it.

bArOquE said...

i might not know much about love but what i think is that love is a decision...i agree with alot you have said but love, as true as it may seem, can NEVER be absolutey unconditional...& i disagree with true love existing without reciprocity, these are human we are talking about...there is only as much as we can give, lets not confuse foolishness infatuation for love

jhazmyn said...

i agree with baroque on love being a descision...its a whole lot more than feelings even though feelings are important when it comesto love

juiceegal said...

wow dis is so so deep..............
me i belive in unconditional love sha
nd yea i love ur conclusion apart 4rm d reciprocal aspect,i bliv love shld b reciprocal.Nice post

StandTall-The Activist said...

when what you feel for the person is about who she or he is and not what she or he is, then you might be genuinely in love. When what one feels is beyond the what one can benefit in terms of material things hmmm, it is love.

Natura attribute shd help ones feeling to grow but definitely not the material stuff

bumight said...

love is a decision, true. I can be in love with ur motivated, young ambitious, purposeful, dashing self, but true love also means that i accept all the flaws that come with it. true love means u love the good, bad and ugly that comes with the whole package.

Rita said...

I like the statement that love is not measured by reciprocity...

BSNC said...

yes everyone of us needs love. nice post

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

We all need true love in our life but to chose to truly be in love is a decision we all need to make

Mimi said...

Only TRUE Love I've ever known is GOD and all that HE IS...

Also, only those who know him are able to love truly like HE DOES.

naijagirl said...

nice post. love is good when is there (irrespective of its origin), but it can also be a pain.
i like the part of "small/tiny things", reminds me of the song from westlife "....its the little thing that only i know, those are the things that make you mine"

Oyin said...

You know I dont know how to answer this question ...cos just when you think your in love you either fall out of love or there is someone else that loves you more (or vice versa)...lol

1 + The One said...

Nice post, certainly got me thinking
xx

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