What do women really want?

A male friend of mine want me to ask we women what we really want? So shoot..
Guys re invited to say their mind out on this. I'm very much interested in knowing your opinion on it. Thank you.

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Delphine Williams said...

Women want complete sincerity and equal loving

BashorunThorpeh said...

women needs attention oh my friend......also we need to be celebrated and appreciated. anyway am speaking for myself that is what i really cherish most sha. you know now.....lol

Bola Shittu said...

money ! money!! money thats it. believe it or not that is my opinion

Olalekan Teibo said...

Affection, care, love and money to go with it

Eddie Madaki said...

security,emotional nd financial. Everything else re dependent on those 2.

Chukwudi Obi said...

First thing they want is financial security. Every other thing can follow. They can start talking about the sincerity, faithfulness, etc after they have established that the first one is there.

Eddie Madaki said...

lol, chukwudi i couldnt av said it beta.

Ghannyheart Herbymborlah Orimadegun said...

Lol...U al v said it .Much money and small luv. Thre's nutin lyk luv dis days o. My friend bside me ere said ha own opinion is love,sex and money. So she said,any1 wnt 2 knw ha name?

Eddie Madaki said...

in dat order? whew!

Ghannyheart Herbymborlah Orimadegun said...

Yes ...Wat do u tink @ eddie...Too bad shez nt on facebk she wlda commentd on it haself. So she said.

Oyindamola Alonge said...

Someone i know thinks all she wants is a man who can always make her feel safe enough to let him see her intimately; in all ramifications. ALL.
This presupposes love, trust, loyalty, great sex, sensitivity, attention and security.

Now about money, money is a symbol of success. No woman would want to identify with a guy who is not successful or who lacks the prospects. I personally think this works both ways for both sexes and it is perfectly normal.

Chibuzo Nwaeze said...

Time and Money... this varies from woman to woman. Some women want more time than money, other women want more money than time. What else? Others things are additional requirements.

StandTall-The Activist said...

I wonder why people limit women's wants to money and affection.

I am a woman and I have spoken to other women. The world will be complete if we live in a world of equality. Where I am not limited or discriminated against in anyway, where marriage is viewed as partners and not slave/boss relationship, where I can continue to make my own money, fulfil my own purpose, making people happy and people making me happy as well. Where I will not have to carry anybody's burden on my shoulder while I am expected to laugh as if it does not matter...

Our purpose goes beyond financial security... a lot of us just have to conform with what the culture or the misinterpretation of religion dictate

We are invincible. We make world go round. We should learn to celebrate ourselves, we should learn to embrace independence, so that men will stop jugding us wrongly and think all we worth is money!

David Adeyemi said...

na only money dey want

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

Hmm,enough well said. But a few of you are wrong though. As a woman who has been there and done that. I can tell you there are alot of women out there who doesn't give a hoot about your money.

Let me not try to justify every women here. But I can still tell you that an average Nigerian women will seek financial comfort in a relationship before jumping into one. Which is very bad. Most babes want to see relationship as a give and take issue.

The categories of women who fell into this most are student. Also women from a very poor background. They all want to make something better out of their life. To them is "If I don't know where I'm coming from, I should know where I'm going to" infact some guys sef still marry rich babes with the same assumption.

But for real,to those women who re really looking for something meaningful in a relationship. They seek for more than MONEY.
Me as a person I want FRIENDSHIP first. I want someone I can play and relate it every point in time...
I want ATTENTION, I want a guy that spend as much time as he can with me.
I want LOVE, my guy must love me unconditionally, he should be ready to love me crazily.
I want COMMITMENT, I want RESPECT, I want to be able to TRUST him..
Ask me what about MONEY.? So far he is comfortable with himself. Then I am too.
Relationship is basically what you make of it..The most important thing a woman need is ATTENTION, not MONEY,. Is so important, in fact in most instances, it is enough, is all that is wanted, needed or required..

Ijeoma Aniebo said...

Me i disagree, dont want my man all up in ma face until we married. i might get sick of him plus i got ma own money even when am broke. U aint my dad or hubby yet wat do i need urs for?

Temitope Amodu said...

Women do not have the slightest clue as to what they want...

Temitope Amodu said...

Women do not have the slightest clue as to what they want...

Chukwudi Obi said...

@Temitope

I think you are the closest to the answer here.
Well said

Emeka Nwani said...

i don't think so Temi and Obi

David Adeyemi said...

hmmmmm.......sometimes they r unstable

Bola Shittu said...

basically what we are still talking about here is money!!! but let us keep the ball rolling. I really want to know the conclusion defined as one word.

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

hahahahahahaha!!! let all ladies speak for herself and every guys drop his opinion, as for me i know all women want money, attention, respect, freedom and so many more.

Lepacious Bose said...

But for real,to those women who re really looking for something meaningful in a relationship. They seek for more than MONEY.
Me as a person I want FRIENDSHIP first. I want someone I can play and relate it every point in time...
I want ATTENTION, I want a guy that spend as much time as he can with me.
I want LOVE, my guy must love me unconditionally, he should be ready to love me crazily.
I want COMMITMENT, I want RESPECT, I want to be able to TRUST him..
Ask me what about MONEY.? So far he is comfortable with himself. Then I am too.
Relationship is basically what you make of it..The most important thing a woman need is ATTENTION, not MONEY,. Is so important, in fact in most instances, it is enough, is all that is wanted, needed or required..

bingo girlfriend you hit the nail on the head, i will walk the road, and crawl with a guy that gives me attention any time T, women only seek money when they are not sure of the man, what has money got to do with anything? sue it makes like easier for both men and women but it does not give the ultimate pleasure of being loved and cherished. moreover these days guys are the ones dating babes cos they want to milk their bank accounts, so ladies watch out pls!

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

Abi oh my sister...
But men never wan d truth...
They always think the way to them is MONEY..
Let me turn the question around sef...
What Do Men Really Want?

Temitope Amodu said...

in addition to my earlier input...

Men really want .. FOOD, SEX AND PEACE OF MIND (i.e. short the hell up)

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

LOL @ Tope....
Na wetin u know be dat..

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

@TOPE... I think Taiwo is askin what women want not men here..if you really want to express yourself better kindly got to the next Note not this..Thank You....LOL!!

Jesse Adeniji said...

Well Taiwo, based upon all these things you have said, i would have said i want you! But i have one!

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

LOL @ Jesse...
I dey trip..
Thank you.

Dabizniz said...

Women want to have cake and eat it too

Definition of cake = Everything

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

lol!!! @Akinyemi you are so funny..
although sound like Joke but that's the basic fact, they can never be contented with what they have, they will always want more and more as each day pass by...!

Ola 'Bosun Odutola said...

Forget about what they want! What they need is a relationship with Jesus...everything else comes naturally if they keep their focus on Him. Matthew 6:33, Hebrews 12:2.

Chukwudi Obi said...

This short tale points to the issue that Most women dont really know what they want. Read through to the end and know.:
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The Husband Store

A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE!
There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch . . .. you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband .
On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord.

The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.

The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop- dead good looking and help with the housework "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!".
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop- dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are woman-visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please! Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

Lmao @ OBI.. Nice one.
But we all know there still lots of women outthere who know what they want jokes apart.

Chukwudi Obi said...

@Taiwo, ..Oh well..

aloted said...

thanks for stopping by my blogs...i appreciate

i totally agree with standtall's views...

i see u've got a nice spot here..

bumight said...

women havent figured out what they want yet. when they do, they will let u know.

LG said...

abi'o bumight :)
@standtall' gramarian :)

Buttercup said...

women want to be loved unconditionally, respected, cared for, protected...

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