Signs To Know When Women Cheat on Their Men?

I've been thinking on what to write since..And just as I have 101 things to write,is so sadden that I cant practically escape mentioning men...our almight men(LOL)..And after the scolding that I got on my article Beware of empty promises.I just had to find something to write about women... But just as I know that am looking for babes troubles..I dont wanna be term as been one-sided all the time..Is only left for the few good women out there to justify themselves.

However I cant just talk about this sign alone without talking on what basically causes women cheating on their men because if a comparison on women fidelity is made between the women of today and those of our mother's or grandmother's time, we can see that over the years the number of women who have cheated on their spouse has increased. Well, this isn't to say that women have grown to be less faithful over the years . 

So, why do woman cheat on their guy? Unlike men, women rarely cheat consciously. What I meant by consciously is that women don't usually actively go out and seek men to have an affair with. Well, there is still a small group that actively seeks men out but for the better part of women who have affairs, it just happened. These women are usually emotionally vulnerable when the affair starts; meaning that their own marriage is going through a rough patch. 

And in as much as I want to resist from saying is the men 's fault.I cant help it but says yeah they caused it.Some men barely pay attention to their women/girlfriend at home.Let alone satisfy her every needs. When I say needs, I do not mean money aspect of it.

Women love to feel loved,been care for and been totally sexually and emotionally balanced.They love to be respected and be confidently sure they hold a very special place in their men's heart. When all that is lacking. Some tend to get equipped with the next available men that is ready to fulfil their fantasies. 

However, we still have some women who are incorrigible. They are just insatiable.And only God can save us from such likes of women 'cos their is absolutely nothing one can do to satisfy or stop their cray-fishing about town.

So what are the tell tale signs that your woman is cheating on you? Honey, if you see your babe splurging on new lingerie and she suddenly start giving you excuses, you'd better start paying attention to what she does and where she goes. If she goes all out and bust your spending your money on new clothes, facials, slimming program and new hairdo, all the more reason for you to check up on your little lady. Chances are she's in 'love' and you are not the object of her affection. 

Women in general love to talk, so if your spouse suddenly stops confiding in you or seeking your advice and opinion, she's most likely getting it from somewhere else. Unlike men, women thrive on emotional support, if she feels that she is not getting it from you or feels that you have lost interest in her, it is only a matter of time before she strays and start cheating behind your back. 

If your woman starts going out frequently for long hours telling you that she is attending to a sick friend, watch out! Her 'sick friend' may not be sick but sure as hell is getting a lot of TLC from yours truly. Or she takes 5 hours to do grocery shopping instead of the usual 1 hours - another sign of a cheating woman. 

How to catch a cheating wife? A good way to start will be your wedding ring. The prominent object that would very likely be missing on cheating wives is their wedding ring. Well, you can't blame them now, can you… you wouldn't want to walk around advertising your marital status when you stray, rite? Naturally, the 'ring' would have to be missing! 

Hey, if you come home one day to find a hot stud in your house whom your wife calls her personal trainer… you can bet your last kobo that he's doing a lot more than just training your wife. 

If you see this pattern in your marriage or relationship, start working very hard to salvage your marriage/relationship. All the hard work will not go to waste as a loving relationship is very fulfilling and helps you through rough times while a destructive relationship is bad for the health.

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Seun Alalade said...

hmmm.....i hear u on this matter o but dnt forget that some women have affairs without needing to take off their wedding rings. some men do only go after he affections or shall i say TLC of a married woman. some men jus prefer it for various reasons such as 'shes not gonna get too clingly....' 'we know thi is jus a temporary affair thing and we jus using each other' ' she wudnt b expectin me to b takin her to meet my parents' etc.

i thnk u have forgotten to categories some women.....'those that jus like to cheat and love the danger' wat can b more dangerous that the possibility of finding a married woman cheatin? the excitement is so appeain to some women and they cheat jus for that reason....

anyway, all in all, this is a good piece.....educates men bout cheatin women and how to spot the signs and also in some way points out how women who cheat can cover their tracks better....lol....dnt mind me.....jus makin room for a dicussion......

p.s. im still waitin for that message bout the message u left on my poem!

David Adeyemi said...

u r not serious tot u said is about women?
why do u ve to blame us for ur mistakes, cheating, dishonesty, immoraltiy,fidelity etc.
women delibrately cheat on dre partners.....but not all women.....d truth is have seen some women whi are like angels, they r wonderful.......desperate dre spouse in ''adequacies''

anyway, mo gbo mo ya in mo se oooo

Marcus Owolabi said...

well,its only time that will tell.but its good to be faithful.even when people around dont appreciate it,you'll still have your pride............

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

As for..i already know all this things..cuz i have been with a lady that's not in anyways faithful, despite all my attention, love, care..but i can't blame her she is need more than that......

Pearl Akibon said...

well hunny someone gat to tell them, i'm glad you didn't omit that part that makes the guys realize that two-third of the time they push their ladies out. anyways it's a good piece

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

Not all off you..some of you are just too dubious...

Seun Oloketuyi said...

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Rotimi Kayode said...

true talk.

Adeyemi Francis Rotimi said...

The bottom line is simply that human beings are just insatiable. As much as ladies falling into the blame pits, our men should take the sticks for their parts too. But it is most atrocious if any lady is found guilty of infidelity rather than when it is committed by men.
I just hate it hearing of cheating girls. I get pissed, sincerely.

Ayotunde Shegun Adedayo-Blackson said...

Lyk I said previously on the first note..everyone has there blame...all what you need to do is make sure you are doin the right thing at the right tym and make sure you not part of those people that take relationship as a cheating ground or something else

Lizzy Lizdo Doyin Ilori said...

lol...lol..lol....true stuff sis...good job

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

@ Seun.. start to cover tracks dey go..
and @ Yemi and Shegun... we are intertwined...I cant talk about men withougt mentioning women or vice verse..

The bottom line is be prepare when your woman is about to start cheating on you..So fasten ur sokoto rope well and prepare to either seat and watch her or deal with it..LOL

Sunshine Ola Sunshine said...

Taiwo, I really enjoyed reading this, I like your sense of humor and you managed to address some crucial issues too.

But, I disagree with the finger pointing.... which for some reason always end up in the direction of men... I don't think men are the cause, and I don't think women are the cause either. It happen often because the foundation was not laid properly. Most people get into a relationship and even worse, get married without knowing what they REALLY WANT, so when what they don't want start showing up, they begin to look for ways to deal run away from it.

The main reason why people cheat is because they are not fulfilled in their relationship. As human, we are fundamentally driven by two things ... PAIN and PLEASURE... As a result, people will always do anything to avoid pain and to gain pleasure.

Therefore, I will like to approach this from the foundation, the real cause

I can not really address this fully here but will do in my next note which I will be posting very soon (The Uttermost About Relationship so watch out guys...

Once again great work Taiwo.

Orimadegun Shakeerat Taiwo said...

Thanks my Sunshine..Looking forward to the note..

Dabizniz said...

Sunshine makes a good point. As someone living with a wife this experience it is hard to come to terms with. My relationship did not have the best foundation to start with and what women REALLY WANT is like six of one and half a dozen of the other. May God give us wisdom to decipher women

Spicytee said...

And I help you say a big AMEN to dat..LOL...

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