tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post5141440412466951836..comments2023-08-18T03:38:57.086-07:00Comments on +: Being The Other WomanAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09411168029384140846noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-28489162617648047542010-12-30T06:17:58.469-08:002010-12-30T06:17:58.469-08:00Rt now he messaged me to check whether am at work ...Rt now he messaged me to check whether am at work or left i have texted him..be with her focus on her love her don't waste such a cold evening.....I am working..you get cosy with her..dont worry abt me..so he msgs me you are angry as i didnt come to see u..i sd nopes why should i be angry..i wanted u to be with her as u are at office and u hardly get time to be with her so be with her love her I WANT TO TELL ALL YOU LADIES...it hurts me when i do this but i have too to save myself from further painAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-91158204378559047532010-12-30T06:09:02.808-08:002010-12-30T06:09:02.808-08:00how can a man love both his girlfriend who is the ...how can a man love both his girlfriend who is the other woman in his life and his dear wife? specially when he claims i love you both equally..!! i am enjoying this game now..every time he tells me from 1 month he wants to meet me...i create some excuse stay late at work...and tell him hey your baby at home is missing you call her go home to her have a good time and tell her you love her and the best joke next day he will call me and tell me see i love you so much that i did as told by you and i got close to her and told her ilove you.what the hell he thinks am an idiot. men are men they wont changeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-74024965988976515702010-12-30T06:04:05.015-08:002010-12-30T06:04:05.015-08:00am the other woman...i never wanted to be the seco...am the other woman...i never wanted to be the second one in somebdy's life but my situations brought me in front of this guy.He is a cop....we both are married...mine aint working me sticking due to kid and running the house as my man doesnt work,his i didnt believe his stories about multiple illness of his wife and also that she is uneducated and too outdated kinds. I saw her pictures, pics of his family his wife and kids and he..she is very obese, not pretty and then he even dialled home while i was next to him.,.she talks in a very odd manner. He told me these are the factors he has drifted away. but son of a gun he told me you are my dream yet i cant leave her whenever you will call me i will be there. being in a abusive relation from many years finding a man i lost myself and got weak. yes whenever he wants he gets to see me i have tested him but when i want he aint there. he wont spend i spend. he told me i dont want to be seen outside with you so to give him good when i last met him after a month ystdry i told him u sit in the car i will get coffee. He told me why i said opps you dont want to be seen with me so i am respecting that..i have started getting sense and started avoiding him..my house bugdet went array due to his birthday gift..he lectures me to pay more attention to my looks and appearance although by grace of Jesus i am attractive and can still make a head turn. i back fired question that why dont you tell ur wife. tday he wanted to meet me so i told him no go home she is waiting..please i have dabbed loads of perfume if u meet me for even 5 min and i hug you she will catch u so i wont stop wearing perfume but i wont meet you :) i agree that we cant let out world revolve around these men,,,we shouldnt always be available..for them else they feel she is totally dependent on me..slowly i will break away from this guy it wont pain that much when i am doing it slowly..but yes it will but better than getting hurt everydayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-27953921074992133212009-08-10T12:46:27.473-07:002009-08-10T12:46:27.473-07:00@ Tariere.. Yes I quite understand what the peopl...@ Tariere.. Yes I quite understand what the people in such situation for through cos I've been in such too. And yes is very confusing but I don't see how it challenge one on how to love truly selflessly because you don't get to be love equally.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09411168029384140846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-42976913264880916862009-08-10T12:46:00.100-07:002009-08-10T12:46:00.100-07:00@ROC and BSCN...Thx..My exams went well.I'm pl...@ROC and BSCN...Thx..My exams went well.I'm planning on writing another one soon.<br />@ StandTaller..Thx for the response to Lekan..LOL..How are u?<br />@ Babajide Salu.. Thx it did..How are you doing?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09411168029384140846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-35728810635601327872009-08-10T08:08:40.054-07:002009-08-10T08:08:40.054-07:00Your perspective sounds to me like you have set id...Your perspective sounds to me like you have set ideas about the issue without really understanding what people in that situation have to go through.<br />It's a very confusing emotional situation, but can also be a good place, as it can challenge you to love truly- selflessly.Tarierehttp://tariere.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-32121726541956279262009-06-03T08:33:45.437-07:002009-06-03T08:33:45.437-07:00You have written and spoken well. Many young ladie...You have written and spoken well. Many young ladies out there need to read what you have got to say.<br /><br />Well done and God bless.<br /><br />I believe your exams went well? Of course they must have!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-71721528488033592562009-05-29T04:06:53.602-07:002009-05-29T04:06:53.602-07:00nice post babe. well written, how did your exams g...nice post babe. well written, how did your exams goBSNChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13543021213550898347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-23270740470007293202009-05-26T07:03:31.319-07:002009-05-26T07:03:31.319-07:00@ Olalekan Oladapo: you know they say it takes 2 t...@ Olalekan Oladapo: you know they say it takes 2 to tango and I wondr why some married men would not take thier vows seriously and start disturbing other women.<br /><br />Some of the young ladies, might have financial issues or others before and they now get to see a man that is married in the first place asking them out persistently... temptation might arise.<br /><br />I think it's good for both parties to know it's not proper. I mean them men that like to do this kind of thing as well as the women they persuade to be the second best...The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-76008568993293114172009-05-26T06:59:26.011-07:002009-05-26T06:59:26.011-07:00Nice post and trully it does not worth it. May we ...Nice post and trully it does not worth it. May we receive the courage to do what is right at all time.The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-91154401842237171322009-05-25T05:46:08.215-07:002009-05-25T05:46:08.215-07:00Ture talk,sis!Ture talk,sis!Speshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14124573976572138151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-91040917679674390482009-05-23T17:14:10.349-07:002009-05-23T17:14:10.349-07:00nice 1...I agree with Afro...nice 1...I agree with Afro...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-52992159730199626732009-05-23T02:28:56.837-07:002009-05-23T02:28:56.837-07:00The do's and dont's of being the other woman..
Or ...The do's and dont's of being the other woman..<br />Or would this just be the dont's..<br /><br />Nice write up Ms Spicy..<br /><br />Finished with your exams then?Rochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910241839180201273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-41859330233733478782009-05-20T18:55:11.774-07:002009-05-20T18:55:11.774-07:00I love this. Like Obi says...MOST people learn the...I love this. Like Obi says...MOST people learn the hard way.Queen of My Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09733155605753992587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-38218444920049528622009-05-18T12:41:00.000-07:002009-05-18T12:41:00.000-07:00EVERYBODY learns the hard way..it's the way of the...EVERYBODY learns the hard way..it's the way of the world...Obi Ezenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-18604716504768457022009-05-18T12:40:00.000-07:002009-05-18T12:40:00.000-07:00I dnt believe a lady wrote this note, but all d sa...I dnt believe a lady wrote this note, but all d same, the truth has been said, now left for the wise gurls out there to make use of it.<br /><br />I think the writer refused to mention the initial motive of gurls that get themselves involved in such relationship i.e fun, money, material things, connection (like some say) etc which to them replaces the luv or emotional feelings ur talking about. To the gurls, they are smart and during the course of their smartness, they get lost in the fantacy.<br /><br />From the look of things, only the despirate gurls (gurls in need of money, fun, material thngs, connection and sometimes HUSBAND) falls in this situation that at the initial stage they might get all these but in the long run, it causes them more harm than good almost for the rest of their lifes.... Read More<br /><br />Like some gurls will say, older & married men are more caring and mature enough to handle them than younger/single guyz. What will u relate this to????.<br /><br />Gurls need this kind of orientation.Olalekan Oladaponoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-73516051646698423292009-05-18T12:39:00.000-07:002009-05-18T12:39:00.000-07:00Nice..... Ave never been in this situation but ave...Nice..... Ave never been in this situation but ave been the victim of....Carol Westleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-38823800957179949812009-05-18T11:19:00.000-07:002009-05-18T11:19:00.000-07:00ur so right......ive said i'd never be the other w...ur so right......ive said i'd never be the other woman or start a rship with someone who leaves his woman for me......Rebirthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10521888528235024119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-37873968449334864342009-05-18T11:15:00.000-07:002009-05-18T11:15:00.000-07:00Hmmmmmn this thing called love sef.........its not...Hmmmmmn this thing called love sef.........its not easy being the other woman but have u eva thought about how hard it must be for the other woman........most of the time she knows that its a sticky situation but she cnt bring herself 2 let go,its like knowin something is bad for u bi=ut u stil go ahead to do it newaiz cuz u cnt resist it,nobody deserves to live this way but it happens,before i might have condemned these women but i know better now,we can only just pray that it dsnt happen to us.juiceegalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17269688990619983319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-198564348602896972009-05-18T10:22:00.000-07:002009-05-18T10:22:00.000-07:00nice one...really nice Taiwo.nice one...really nice Taiwo.Ayodeji Adefemiwanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-43798038395154211462009-05-18T10:21:00.000-07:002009-05-18T10:21:00.000-07:00I like this....but.....I like this....but.....Seun Igenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-80130227863854332482009-05-18T10:19:00.000-07:002009-05-18T10:19:00.000-07:00Ladies, think b4 u do get in to a situation like t...Ladies, think b4 u do get in to a situation like this. If u do, u r as much responable as the guy is.Oyibo Thysnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-3812087439837760832009-05-18T10:16:00.000-07:002009-05-18T10:16:00.000-07:00Am guilty of this.
So i comment my reserve.Am guilty of this.<br />So i comment my reserve.Steven Chinonsonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-38014675276795239082009-05-18T05:33:00.000-07:002009-05-18T05:33:00.000-07:00BTW, how were ur exams..i trust they went well, we...BTW, how were ur exams..i trust they went well, welcome backjhazmynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00937354854181520677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3726515568533077524.post-88371711599320655662009-05-18T05:32:00.000-07:002009-05-18T05:32:00.000-07:00So on point...and my question as always is...if i ...So on point...and my question as always is...if i dont want my hubby cheating on me, why do i do same to some other woman...its such a viscious circle really. I remember some married guy once saying his wife/marriage had become boring and all they do now is talk about "the children this, the bills that" and i'm like, why not use the energy spent in sneaking around to try make things work?...<br /><br />really, we all deserve "our own man" no need settling for less...good one girl<br /><br />PS. Sorry for the long commentjhazmynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00937354854181520677noreply@blogger.com